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Year of the Tiger – Grandmaster Taejoon Lee’s New Year’s Message

Hope everyone had a nice holiday break, rekindling familial bonds and sharing the joys of love and friendship.

For those of you who followed my 2009, Year of the Ox, New Year’s Message of hard work indicative of the ox, you should now be in good shape to spring into action.  Just working hard at planning and developing does not guarantee success; you must set it in motion, put into action!

2010 is the Year of the Tiger.  It’s the year of being courageous, bold, and taking initiative.  It’s all about implementation and taking risks.  If you have done the right work in the year of the OX, then your risk will be far less.  Nevertheless, there’s always risk and one should not fear it.

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It is this that I would like to address, the fear of taking risks.  This is what dictionary.com says about “risk”.

risk noun
1.    exposure to the chance of injury or loss; a hazard or dangerous chance: It’s not worth the risk.

So the fear of taking risk is then the fear of injury or loss.  Life is about decisions and most of our decisions are based on assessing the risk.  This is where as a martial artist or better yet; as a modern warrior we have the advantage or at least we should.  Essentially in our training we address these two most fundamental fears, the fear of injury and the fear of loss.

In sparring or fighting – you cannot expect to strike without being struck, inflict pain without receiving pain, and win without losing.  And even more so for us Hwarangdoists, before a student can apply joint-manipulation techniques on a person, the instructor first applies the techniques on him/her so that they can feel the pain first before they can perform the techniques on anyone else.

As I have said many times before, it’s the imagination that fuels the fear.  So the greater your imagination, the more fantastic your fears become.  The foot soldiers on the frontlines do not need to think as much as take action; too much thinking delays action and intensifies the fears.  The generals/commanders require less physical action, but more strategic planning.  The goal for Hwarangdoists is to always strive for balance and this also applies here.

We must be both educated intellectuals as well as possess heightened physical attributes in all areas.  Thought without action is worthless and action without thought is perilous.

We perform magic or miracles daily.  We create a conception in our minds from nothingness, the invisible and then through our actions we materialize our thoughts into tangible/physical reality.  Of course this does not happen at the waive of a wizard’s magic wand, but in essence that’s what we are doing, creating something from nothing, from thought to reality.  And, action is the bridge from the immaterial to the material.

Hence, whatever we can create in our minds, then we should be able to create in reality.  So, all we have to do is to choose and then commit to the action until it comes to fruition.  All great things in the world came from one person’s mind, who put the thought out into the universe and sparked the imagination of the collective humankind.

So, then why are so many people lost and unhappy?

For me the answer is simple: we are enslaved by our fears, which forces us to focus on the risk rather than the reward.  And, with the added element of “human inertia” which makes us seek for complacency and apathy disguised as comfort, we dwell in thought and become idle in action.  And to make things worse, we are constantly bombarded with distractions by the media & technology, taking away the time for introspection and enhancing the illusion of happiness.

Therefore, the first thing is to take the time to know ‘thyself’:  Who am I?  What do I want and just as important what do I don’t want?  What do I need?  What do I want to do with my life?  Then, the second thing one must do, which for most people is the hardest thing and the reason for abandoning their quest for what they want – taking action!

After investing much time into discovering the ‘self’, now one must put it into action.  Although, it’s clear in our minds, the work, the struggle, and the hardships, which one must endure in order to make something a reality overwhelms and deters any normal persons’ decision to stay committed to their quest.  Therefore, the next vital component is to cultivate courage, the hardest to procure.

Any person can be courageous, but in order to cultivate it, one must fertilize it with strength.  This strength is not of the body or the mind alone, but it must be of mind, body, heart, and spirit.

Strength is not only about what more one has – more muscle, more money, more knowledge; it’s also about tolerance, endurance, patience, compassion, and wisdom.  And all these attributes are gained empirically, so it can be taught and more importantly self-taught.  They are learned by challenging oneself to accomplish difficult tasks: whether it be attending the strictest of schools, doing something no one or only a few have ever done, daring to go places where no one has been, striving for perfection.  And through their struggles, their pains, their sufferings, they emerge stronger and more courageous.  As I always say to my students, “One cannot build a fortress out of marshmallows,” then you cannot build a stronger you without hardship.

Then, as warriors we should not be afraid of the pain, the hardship as we face these in every training session, every class, daily.  We know that the fear imagined is far worse then what is real.  We were all afraid the first time we engaged in sparring, but after we have done it, we scoff at it like it was nothing.  It’s the worrying that kills, not the problem.

We also know that you cannot inflict pain without knowing pain yourself.  Then, we should not be afraid as we also realize that we can be much more tolerant to pain once imagination is out of the equation.

Furthermore, we also know that although we may lose today, that with practice that we can win tomorrow.  We know of personal sacrifice and that you cannot gain if do not give up and that the only true loss or failure is in quitting.

We do not live life to die; we do not engage in competition to lose; we do not fight to get beat up: so, why should one be afraid to choose one’s life path and to live the way one wants.  Don’t fixate on the bills, go out and make more money.  Don’t worry about losing your mate, get up and stay in shape and invest in your betterment.  Don’t be afraid to start your business venture, go out and learn more and educate yourself.  Don’t ask if something is easy to do, get stronger and better at it.  Don’t ask if you can, ask what you’re willing to give up.

In the end we will lose everything anyway!

Let us roar like a Tiger in 2010!

Hwarang Forever with Strength, Honor, & Courage!

Grandmaster Taejoon Lee

22 Responses to “Year of the Tiger – Grandmaster Taejoon Lee’s New Year’s Message”

  1. Glenn Mantel says:

    As always, I am inspired by what Grandmaster Lee has to say and appreciate the wisdom he shares which applies not just to our martial disciplines but to our daily lives as well. Hwarang!

  2. Jeff Ader says:

    Great message Grand Master Lee. Thanks for the inspiration.
    Would you allow me to use your message in one of my Lessons of the Week?
    Thanks,
    Kyoshi Jeff Ader

  3. jero-si says:

    when i had a master, my master told me that there is no problem that can not be solved, it was said that the true solution, to any problem,
    was choosing to solve the problem or not, my master said you must be
    willing to accept the end result, of your choice, weather good or not,
    there is also a third choice, that is not to be placed in a position where
    you have to make a choice, if you loose in a choice, but another person
    recived a benefit from your loosing, you lost nothing its just not your
    turn to recive the [ ming blessing ] when it is your time your turn will come, and you will gain the blessing. my master gave me a hard and
    complex, choice, i took the third choice, the one he did not expect. i
    choose to be a free sprit martial artist,[ no bonds to a master ] this puts
    a greater responsibilty on yourself, to perfect your self defense,
    mind body spirit consideration compashion and respect for other
    liveing entitys, with the right combination of ingredients, and materials
    you can achive a level of power that even you yourself would question
    am i really doing this know thi self.

    jero-si

  4. Holly says:

    Thank you for an excellent and inspiring message!

  5. Derick Berold says:

    This is such a positive message as Im born in the year of the Tiger it great to have something positive to look forward too thanks for such a positive message and for your friendshaip Kuksanim Lee/ Thanks Derick. Berold

  6. “…the only true loss or failure is in quitting.”

    This is the most important phrase in this message, in my opinion. Never quit. Get up and do the action again, for every time you get back up you become stronger. There is no guarantee you will gain perfection, but if you quit it is promised that you will not improve.

    Thank you for this article, KukSa Nim.
    Hwarang Forever!

  7. roger PW says:

    great message …i love your philosophy

    you should do a u.k. based school???

    cheers

  8. Billie Buss says:

    Hwarang Grandmaster Lee!

    Thank you very much for this inspirational message, Sir!

    -Billie Buss

  9. Thank you for this inspiring article sir. I will do my best to spread the essence of this article and the strong mentality among my students.

    Hwarang from the Netherlands.

  10. Billy Guthrie says:

    I would really like to study your style but their is no local schools in this area. I looked over the distance learning program it looks good but not sure yet if should proceed. I have been involved in martial arts for a while starting with D.W Kangs Tae Kwon Do school in tulsa. I loved it but I live an hour away and its hard to justify the expense especially now when things are tight. After completeing the Tae Soo Do course can you still continue on in to Hwa Rang Do style?

  11. michael says:

    I love this stuff,and enjoy your web site and all the you tube video’s I am from kentucky and they are no martial art’s school in my town how could I learn your system please send feed back.
    thank you mike.

  12. jerry borgersen says:

    hello, grandmaster/ instructors. i really believe hwawrangdo is a very important part of society. i am asking if there are scholarships in your school? it is a dream of mine to attend and would do me an amazeing change in life. I would almost give anything i have to attend and believe you guys are amaziing, and very full of wisdom. I too have had many hardships and have beat them all and it would mean every thing in the world to attend your school. i am not a loss to you, but someone who would use what i am taught to better our world. i believe everything you are teaching and am not afraid to learn, is it possible to enter your school on a scholorship or a grant? your friend…. Jerry Borgersen

  13. Many thanks for this, very true. We live in an age where people expect
    too much because we have too much and have forgotten how to
    strive. Well this is a fact in the West where people can afford to eat,
    and live from day to day – they are lucky. Society needs to balance itself
    generally, in particular UK and I think martial arts will always offer a person
    this balance if, in fact, the practitioner is a martial artist and lives
    by the code, as many are just preoccupied with wealth and fame and fighting
    that is not the true ‘way’. Being a martial artist permeates the whole of
    one’s life whether we make the right decisions or not, we should learn
    from our experiences in any case and not be afraid to admit that we
    are always growing.

  14. Outstanding message!

  15. Nice message for this ( tiger ) year !
    I really appreciate what Grandmaster Lee doing !
    when you are going and show us ….. about Hwarang do at Indonesia ?

    Thanks,
    Best Regards,

    Yoyok

  16. Jose Morales De Leon says:

    Thank you so much for your message Grandmaster Lee! I myself was born the year of the Tiger, and my life has allways been about being held back by my fears of taking risks. Your words and wisdom will help me in my future and my present. I shall not be afraid of taking risks anymore! This is my year! I will surpass myself and my fears! Thank you for your motivation! Your words mean alot to me.

    P.S. I hope to learn the ways of Hwarang do once again during my journey in life.

  17. Grandmaster Lee ! It really give me a energertic FEEL after read your NEW Year Massage. I truly appreciate & hope everybody will really start from this moment, DO it with NO FEAR !! Yes ! No Pain No Gain !! 1 World, let’s all just DO it NOW !!

  18. Jason Adler says:

    Thank you for this timely message Kuksanim!

    This, as you well know, hits home particularly true for me. I have to say thank you, as always, for your incredible inspiration. I find myself waiting and wondering when I’ll see another of your posts here…it’s fuel for my life.

    Thank you again, Sir!

    Hwarang forever!

    Jason Adler

  19. Will Wright says:

    Hwarang, Grandmaster Lee:

    Thank you for this post. It is helping me to reflect. Particularly, I am reflecting on the idea of cultivation of strength (and I may add, on cultivation of virtue). I am currently reading Walden, by Henry David Thoreau, who discusses this concept at some length throughout his book. I wonder who in American history would have trained in HRD if it were available then.

    Will Wright

  20. Thanks for the message it was very heart felt and motivating. You are a great man and hope to meet and learn from u in person one day soon

    Benjamin cruz

  21. David Kijek says:

    Hwa Rang and Happy New Year Kuksanim Sir!
    This is another great message, providing more great inspiration from a GREAT Master! Thank you for the relevance you bring to life. We are lucky to have you.
    May this year be the year that takes us beyond our self imposed limitations!
    Thank you Sir!
    Hwa Rang!
    David

  22. cj says:

    Daedonhee Kamsahapnida, Kuk Sa Nim
    Hwa Rang!
    cj

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